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Advocate-
To speak in favor of; recommend
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1.
A person who argues for a cause; supporter or defender
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2.
A person who pleads in another's behalf; intercessor.
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Advocacy-
Active support, as of a cause, idea, or policy.
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Through
my music, lyrics, songs, and performances, I feel blessed to be
able to try to convey the thoughts, ideas, and feelings of not only
myself, but of the countless hundreds I have met in my lifetime.
These wonderful and unique individuals have suffered abuses that
defy description. Their strength and perseverance help guide me.
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Equally
important are the many great organizations dedicated to advocating
for those who have felt the sting of discrimination and stigma pertaining
to mental illness/health and the sheer horror and impact felt by
those who have endured childhood sexual, physical, and emotional
abuse. You will find some of these great groups listed in the resources
section below and on the links page.
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I am
forever honored to have worked with and met so many of you. God
has
indeed blessed all of you.
PUBLIC
SPEAKING BROCHURE
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doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can
change the world, it's
the only thing that ever has." - Margaret
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The Cedars at Potomac Point overlooking Washington,
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These
2 photos of me playing the guitar and singing with some friends
were taken
at a restaurant & pub at Georgetown University in
Washington, DC in November 2005. We had all just been part of the
conference held at Georgetown University - "Children In Slavery
- The 21st Century Summit". It was a truly powerful experience
and I was quite honored that I was asked to present and talk of
my experiences as a child and a young teen. Though emotionally
draining
for me, I knew that by sharing I would be helping others who have
suffered and for those enduring horrible hardships today.....music
is indeed a powerful remedy for hope and as these photos show..having
fun. I was once again honored to be asked to speak and to perform
a concert for the students of Georgetown University [along with
some other colleges] in February 2006 who held their own conference
to
end the exploitation and trafficking of children and adults.
The photos of The Cedars [where I stayed Nov. 2005] are worth sharing because
of the mission statement and beliefs held by those involved with The Cedars.
A place where people of different persuasions, religions, political beliefs,
race, nationality , etc can come to talk in a peaceful and neutral setting.
The following text is part of their Vision:
"I was
hungry and you gave me food. I was thirsty and you gave me a drink. I was a
stranger and you made me welcome. I was naked
and you clothed
me.I was
ill and you came and looked after me. I was in prison and you came to see me
there.......I assure you that whatever you did for the humblest of my brothers
and sisters, you did for me." |
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Consumer
Musician Helps Raise
$20,000
for SASS
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Although
stereotypical views of mental health consumers are those of dependent
individuals pertpetually in need, some people with mental illness
are succeeding at erasing such images from the minds of the public.
Among such successes is Michael Skinner, a professional guitarist
and drummer from Manchester, who has been publicly advocating
for a less negative picture of what mental health consumers have
to offer the larger society.
He
donates his time as a professional guitarist and drummer to fundraising
events in N.H., especially those sponsored by organizations raising
money to address mental health related issues. His performing
helps erase erroneous public images of mental illness and serves
as a type of self-help therapy. Last year, Mr. Skinner performed
live during registration for the Sexual Assault Support Services
(SASS) Annual Walk-A-Thon, held in Portsmouth on April 22, 2001.
This event succeeded in raising more than $20,000 for SASS.
According
to an article recently printed in Seacoast On-line, "Mr.
Skinner uses his music on two levels: to entertain, and to speak
out against the stigma of mental illness."
"The
one thing that I hope comes through loud and clear is how much
I plain enjoy playing now," Mr. Skinner told Karen Dandurant,
who interviewed him for Seacoast Online. "I love music. It's
a healthy part of me that gives me a pleasure that I want to share.
I want to erase the stereotype of mentally challenged people only
being capable of doing piece work in a workshop.
Skinner
released an album entitled "Train of Tears" last year.
Part of the proceeds from each sale of his album, available on
CD, goes to benefit the National Alliance for the Mentally Ill
of N.H. In addition, Mr. Skinner co-chairs the Manchester chapter
of NAMI-NH with Nancy McGuire, who has a family member with a
psychiatric disability. Further information on NAMI-NH aactivities
is available at their website: http://www.naminh.org.
Mr.
Skinner is also President of the Consumer Advisory Council to
the Disability Rights Center, as well as an active member of the
Coalition on Family Law and Mental Illness. The coalition seeks
to end discrimination against parents with mental illness in child
care, visitation or custody matters, and is funded by the N.H.
DBH and DCYF, the N.H. Bar Foundation and the N.H. Charitable
Foundation.
For
additional information on family law and mental illness, one may
visit http://www.ffcmh.org as well as http://www.bazelon.org/custody.html.
Also recommended: The N.H. Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual
Violence at http://www.nhcadsv.org.
Excerpts
by Karen Dandurant reprinted with permission of Seacoast On-line,
http://www.seacoastonline.com
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College Essay About a Hero
by
Alisa Skinner
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I've
always looked up to my father and have admired him. His strength
and wisdom were admired not only by me, but also those around
him. He's one who stands firm in what he believes. After this
past year my love and admiration for him has grown. My father
is the most heroic man I know by the strength and courage shown
by him through the tragedy he is facing.
During
the past year my father has gone in and out of the hospital because
of his illness with major depression. The result of this has caused
his business to fail. The business that he built himself and made
the most successful in New England. Around Christmas time last
year he started having flashbacks of treacherous acts his parents
did to him and his brothers and sister. As a child his parents
physically and sexually abused him. Because of these horrifying
scenes he could no longer work from the shock of what had occurred.
When
I think of a hero, I think of a survivor. One who has overcome
many obstacles in life. A hero is also good-natured and well-liked.
A hero has courage and amazing strength. I am amazed at my father's
strength to handle what he has gone through and turn out so well.
He is a hero to make good of what he came from and turn his life
around. He was a hero to survive the treacherous battle that went
on between him and his parents as a child.
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For
Immediate Release Contacts:
November 9, 2002 David Roscow, 703-276-2772, ext. 21
Scott Treibitz, 703-276-2772, ext. 11
New
Report
Catholic Church Guilty of Global Human Trafficking of Sexual Predators
and Victims
Group
Calls on
Vatican to Turn over All Diocesan "Historical Secret Archives"
to Law Enforcement
Calls For US Congressional Hearings
International
Humanitarian Campaign Against the Exploitation of Children
Press Conference, 1:30 pm, Tuesday, November 12
National Press Club, Holman Room --- (14th and F Street NW, 13th
floor)
Washington,
DC - The Catholic Church is guilty of a historic, systemic cover-up
of human trafficking of sexual predators and victims as defined
by the United Nations according to a report by the International
Humanitarian Campaign Against the Exploitation of Children (IHCAEC).
The report, In the Name of God, documents clear evidence of global
patterns of behavior and tactics by church officials that has resulted
in "global human trafficking" of sexual predators and
their victims under the guise of protecting the Priesthood, the
image of the Catholic Church, and avoiding legal and financial liability
for their actions.
"Even
in these very dark days of the Roman Catholic Church's worse sexual
scandal, the Church hierarchy and the Vatican continue to co-conspire
to cover-up heinous sexual crimes by members of the clergy including
sexual rituals, orgies, and ritual abuse sex rings." said author
of the report and former CNN Political Director Christine Dolan,
CEO/founder of IHCAEC. "In this cover-up, the Roman Catholic
Church hierarchy use their usual tools-Denial, Deflection, Secrecy,
Stonewalling, and Blaming victims, their families and supporters,
and media who attempt to report the true nature of this sexual torture."
"It
is time for Law Enforcement agencies worldwide to do what the Roman
Catholic church Hierarchy, who clearly consider themselves 'A Royal
Priesthood' and above the civil laws that govern laity, to do what
the Vatican and their Bishops continue to lack the moral leadership
and moral courage to do. Positions of power in the church can no
longer be protection from CRIMINAL ACCOUNTABILITY! Their acts of
commission and omission are as criminal as the predators' sadistic
torture and savagery of children!" says Dolan.
For
more information about IHCAEC visit www.helpsavekids.org.
Press Conference Participants:
o Christine Dolan, Author of In the Name of God. CEO/Founder, International
Humanitarian Campaign Against the Exploitation of Children
o Hon. Richard Seziberra, Rwandan Ambassador to the U.S.
o Father Thomas P. Doyle, O.P., J.C.D.,
o Pat Roddy, Former ABC News Executive Producer
o Father John Bambrick, Priest Survivor of Clergy Sexual Abuse
o Homayra Sellier, Pres., Innocence in Danger--Geneva, Switzerland,
Child pornography internet expert
o Linda McDonald, R.N. and Jeanne Sarson, R.N., Ritual abuse-torture
experts, Nova Scotia, Canada
o Michael Skinner, American non-Catholic survivor
o Ben Johnston, American- DynCorp trafficking whistle-blower
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ongoing efforts to make the public aware of the seriousness of childhood
sexual abuse and it's long- term consequences through my music,
my advocacy work, and my website, has led me to interact with many
others, not only on a regional basis, but an international one as
well. This networking led others to make Christine Dolan of the
International Humanitarian Campaign Against The Exploitation Of
Children contact me and ask me to participate in the above mentioned
Press Conference. I was extremely honored to do so. Here is the
prepared speech I gave at the National Press Club in Washington,
DC. I also spoke for 10 minutes following this prepared text and
was given a standing ovation. I was truly humbled and honored to
be able to help convey words for those who have been abused. Slowly
but surely we will end this abuse.
WHY?- Michael Skinner
Why am I speaking today at a conference addressing the concerns
of the Catholic Church hierarchy and their complicity in the sexual
abuse of children and adolescents? My own experience and the nightmare
I endured of having suffered through many years of sexual, physical,
and emotional abuse at the hands of my parents and their perverted
friends gives me the right to speak here. For it goes back to
the question of WHY, and how could so many members of society
ignore and allow the torture I lived through to continue. The
abuse I suffered did not take place in a vacuum, people were aware
of something not right going on at my home. The police came to
my home countless times, school officials knew something wasn't
right, the local minister, the family doctor, nurses, teachers,
& neighbors, they all knew something was wrong. Apathy and
indifference allowed for my extreme sexual, physical, & emotional
abuse to continue. The very same apathy and indifference displayed
by the Cardinal Laws, the Bishop McCormacks, and countless others
who ignored and then swept under the rug, the sufferings of those
entrusted in their care. This apathy and indifference then leads
to an even greater crime of complicity in allowing the sexual
abuse and perversion of young people to flourish and continue.
I have asked the question, WHY was this allowed to happen to me
for most of my young life. I still ask the same question when
I see and hear of the despicable exploits, the sexual perversions,
the crimes that were practiced upon so many young people by members
of the Catholic Church ministry. For the leaders of this Church
and others who allowed this to continue goes beyond appalling
and shameful. Their inaction, their complicity in these crimes
is in of itself a crime, a crime to humanity, a crime to God's
children. For this sexual abuse survivor, I would welcome back
seeing these entrusted leaders ridden out of town, tarred and
feathered to a rail. The shame and embarrassment these officials
would suffer would pale in comparison to what victims of sexual
abuse have suffered with, endured and now must contend with on
a daily basis for the rest of their lives.
We must get past the war of words spun by the Cardinal Laws and
their respective legal counsel in deflecting the heat off of them
and onto the victims. Instead we must get down to what the "inappropriate
touching" of young people is all about. The coerced and forced
penetration of an adult's penis into the mouth, the anus, the
vagina of a young child or teenager is rape. To allow for these
rapists [male & female] to carry on with great impunity for
all these years is also a crime, these supposed leaders of the
Catholic Church allowed for these rapes to continue and at the
expense of so many victims. Being forced to endure such rape is
a lasting legacy that does not ever leave you. To also be forced
to commit fellatio, a "blow job", and cunnilingus to
an adult and made to sodomize the adult perpertrator also never
leaves you. The gag reflex, the shame, the horror is something
that stays with you for a lifetime. Those memories, those thoughts,
those feelings are burned into your psyche, your soul, your whole
being and with it comes a lifetime of pain and shame. A shame
you should not feel, for it was done to you. But the ignoring
of your cries of help, for help, by the Cardinal Laws of this
world make you internalize a shame that is not yours, but theirs.
So instead of asking why am I speaking here today, I need to ask
why are these leaders still in power? It has nothing to do with
the care and concerns of their parish. It has to do with their
own selfish gain. When society starts to hold people who helped
in the complicity of the sexual abuse of children accountable,
then and only then will it start to help and protect children
from this despicable crime of rape inflicted upon those who cannot
defend themselves.
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